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There Isn’t Perfection in Motherhood
There isn’t perfection in motherhood. I am good enough in motherhood just as I am, with flaws and mistakes. Before becoming a mom I was addicted to the pursuit of perfection and equally addicted to the praise. I’ve been driven by being a hard worker, trying not to make any mistakes, I bounce balls continuously, and … Continue reading
My Kids Are Growing Up Too Fast
We watched our kids race after each other. They didn’t need us to entertain them, they were happy to play with each other. I said to my husband that this time in our life felt good. He agreed but stopped and looked at me with genuine concern and said, “I feel like the kids are … Continue reading
When Mother’s Day Isn’t Perfect
Mother’s Day Isn’t Perfect. We shouldn’t expect Mother’s Day to be perfect because motherhood isn’t perfect. Define, celebrate and reflect on motherhood in your own way. I waited impatiently for the light to blink and indicate the street was safe to cross. Late for a meeting, my mind was clouded and I just wanted to … Continue reading
Losing Me in Motherhood
I was losing me in motherhood. Stranded in motherhood by the monotony of laundry, carpool logistics, and meal planning. Stuck in picking up the toys, refereeing sibling fights and begging them to put on their shoes. Mom. Mom. Mom. I wanted to change my name. I wanted time alone. I was at the point where … Continue reading
Keep Swimming
In a decision my husband and I have yet to confirm was a good one, we decided that our children would have their tonsils and adenoids out on the same day this past month. My husband and I both took sick time and were home together to care for our children and took an “all … Continue reading
Balance in Motherhood Is A Lie
Moms are fed an expectation they can and need to do it all and that is impossible. Balance in motherhood is a lie and no amount of hustling will ever make it possible.
I’m Not Making A Summer Bucket List
Be confident in your own family’s summer activities and make memories that matter. You don’t need a summer bucket list to enjoy summer with your kids.
Look for Love
When motherhood is too heavy, look for love to guide you to healing.
Belly Button
The map of my motherhood; the story of where it all began. My belly button tells the story of my connection to my own mother and how I became a mother to my children. Treasure those tiny newborn belly buttons, admire the belly buttons on your big kids and appreciate your own belly button for the … Continue reading
The Sadness When You’re Done Having Babies
If you’re done having babies and you feel moments of sadness, don’t be ashamed. It’s okay to feel both confidence and sadness. It is possible to feel both confident and sad in your decision about being done having babies. It is okay to be sad and take the time to grieve the end of having … Continue reading
To The Mamas Underwater
When my second baby was born at 11 pounds, I was peppered with the same statements about sleeping that I was given when I had my 9.5 pound baby, “Oh you know the nice thing about big babies? They sleep!” I would kindly nod when these parenting experts would share their wisdom about sleep and … Continue reading
Slow Down Child
I know I can’t slow you down, my child so instead I will slow myself down so that I don’t regret my speed in your inevitable growth.
How Was School Today?
Challenge yourself to stop asking, “How was school today?” Instead, find the opportunity to share moments without distraction.
Goal Setting in Motherhood
How do you set goals as a mom when there are so many other distractions? My answer: it’s a race, but it’s not a race. As moms, living the day-to-day is challenging enough. When you throw in goal setting, it’s hard not to feel defeated and give up. Motherhood is a constant race of sprinting … Continue reading